We come across so many people in our lifetime, some become friends and some of them will get best place, yeah best friends! We also have some people like they approach you when they need and rest of time vanish and leave no sign! They just act like friends.
So what are best friends like ? let me mention some of the points
· They are people with whom you can speak your heart out and they will be with you all the time no matter what happens
· Best friend is the kind of person who knows you inside and out and yet associates with you anyway. They love you to the core!
· They know your darkest secrets and will keep them forever.
· They know your flaws and disregard them happily and help you out.
· They hold your hand and be with you when you cry like a baby and when you laugh they will laugh with you.
Well you might be thinking of them now reading this!! Yeah its common according to human psychology chill! People find best friends in different perspective, it can be based on same views they share, ideas that are in common, it can be your parents, a pet like dog, cat, books! Yea books are best friends to some people and they love reading! Many possibilities!
Social networking is a trend today and sites like Facebook and twitter is a way to find new friends. Unlike in olden days friends were the people with whom you used to interact in real world today people get to tend in a virtual world and believe some guy or girl on the other part of world is a friend just because he is in friend list on Facebook. In many rare cases there is a possibility to find a best friend this way but we can’t go on searching for a best friend can we ? so chuck it and stop being presentable to people and be yourself and you’ll get friends around you and ultimately a best by chance. Ultimately all have one or more best friends.
Most of the time some people believe that girl and boy cant be best friends! Why can’t a girl and boy be best friends? its totally possible! Well considering the scenario in India its parents who say this and keep their daughters away from a guy when it comes to boy being best friend or they misinterpret that they are in love! Funny isn’t it? yeah it is ! can’t help it’s the mindset of people. Are you facing this? then go and just explain your parents its not that way and even your friends who make up stories.
Life is a short so live it up! And with best of friends around you can make your journey joyful! Sometimes you must be your own best friend! So you know your best friends and yeah even the people who stab your back faking it! And most importantly don’t lose your best friends in search of new one’s.
Keep smiling :)
- Sachin Prabhu